Exploring Disability and Psychological Suffering in Rohinton Mistry’s Family Matters

Abstract

Rohinton Mistry's Family Matters is a sensitive depiction of disability, ageing and psychological pain in an average Parsi family. In this novel, it is the character of an old man who is finally able to receive the truth about his existence, as he is living with Parkinson's disease that reveals the emotional and psychological suffering of a disabled person in a society that expects the able-bodied, and in which rigid social norms prevail. Mistry skillfully portrays the dysfunctional family dynamics and the way a disability causes dependency, isolation and loss of dignity. Nariman's state highlights the prejudices and discriminatory attitude of the family and the larger community, where disabled and ageing bodies are often seen as a burden, rather than a person worthy of care and respect. The novel also explores the oppressive systems in Indian society, such as institutions and cultural norms and expectations, and the obligations and responsibilities of family members which also leads to emotional suffering and disconnection. As Nariman grows ill and becomes more and more reliant on others, Mistry condemns the lack of empathy that the Parsi community has for the elderly, sick, and disabled. There are also elements of disillusionment, nostalgia, identity crisis and social exclusion in the narrative, which allows a physical disability to intertwine with a psychological trauma. Family Matters not only conveys the emotional plight of the disabled person and the anxiety of the family member, but also provides a powerful insight into the fragility of man, the sacrifices he makes, and the value of kindness in today's world.